Quick Sanding 

The act of showing too much interest in another person making you appear desperate and less desirable to them. The term "Quick Sanding" is referring to if you were standing in quick-sand trying to get out- the harder you try the quicker you will sink.

Her: "I tried calling him, texting him, even went to dinner with his mom. Then I tried to add him on Facebook. I still haven't got any response. I know....I will try texting him again!"
Person listening to her: "You are Quick Sanding so bad right now- Please just stop!"

Quick Sanding by Lance Pecht July 23, 2019

quicksanding

Allowing your friend to sink lower and lower into hideousness in order to maintain your attractiveness. Slow and sad sabotage.

Carla's blind vision to self beautification could only be cradled by Gina's quiet but stealth quicksanding.

quicksanding by Hbomb082 October 18, 2013

Quicksanding

Falling slowly into a worse situation.

Dudes just quicksanding himself every time he goes back with her.

Quicksanding by Blahblahblacksheeep May 27, 2018