quicksanding

Allowing your friend to sink lower and lower into hideousness in order to maintain your attractiveness. Slow and sad sabotage.

Carla's blind vision to self beautification could only be cradled by Gina's quiet but stealth quicksanding.

quicksanding by Hbomb082 October 18, 2013

Quicksanding

Falling slowly into a worse situation.

Dudes just quicksanding himself every time he goes back with her.

Quicksanding by Blahblahblacksheeep May 27, 2018

Quick Sanding 

The act of showing too much interest in another person making you appear desperate and less desirable to them. The term "Quick Sanding" is referring to if you were standing in quick-sand trying to get out- the harder you try the quicker you will sink.

Her: "I tried calling him, texting him, even went to dinner with his mom. Then I tried to add him on Facebook. I still haven't got any response. I know....I will try texting him again!"
Person listening to her: "You are Quick Sanding so bad right now- Please just stop!"

Quick Sanding by Lance Pecht July 23, 2019

Quicksandic

A self imposed negative outcome that got accelerated by the individual’s futile efforts to extricate themselves from the negativity.

The teacher’s efforts to explain his inappropriate comments had a a quicksandic impact..

Quicksandic by anonymous December 12, 2025

Grindset

The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.

“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”

Grindset by Omega-Male May 22, 2026

jerb 

well known from south park
rednecks get angrry that future folk took there jobs so they yell
They took ouare jerbs!

Them future folk took ouare jerbs!

jerb by Jimberley Kim April 7, 2005

Cheeks 

An Irish phrase meaning shit, derived from ass
(Not to be confused with the literal description of one's buttocks)

"Did you hear the song Aylek$ dropped?"
"Hardly. Her music is absolute cheeks."

"My boyfriend say LaFlame is cheeks."
"Tell your boyfriend I said it's his mixtape that's cheeks."

Cheeks by thecartisan April 26, 2020