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A sex and power obsessed person (likely male) with gaudy, gilded, and staid taste (or possibly all three - to emulate a time pleasing to an unreachable hierarchy - most likely an unloving parent figure).

Likely a powerful persona based on a last century (1980s's-1990's) flawed protagonists - that halted their emotional and intellectual growth - just like an action movie ending.

Fuctators may appear on modern dating sites. But protect yourself-they may be searching just for a "body" to play a role in beauty and silent nods (think Stepford wives). But they may also hide their personal beliefs and nature to satisfy their own suppressed desires. SO BEWARE. Their "suppressed" desires may include a society or time where women do not own independence in finances, their bodies, their life, their beliefs etc. (FYI if 1950's is a theme be wary).

These Fuctators are usually enigmatic and have powerful personalities - but they will employ every tool to bring you under their control - even if they don't realize it. They are narcissists that were raised with power behind them (it could be financial, coddled, royal, political etc.) And thus much more dangerous than everyday narcissists.
"Gah! My ex was such a "fuctator"! At first he seemed nice and traditional, then we regressed to 1940."
Fuctator by A. Gill January 27, 2026
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similar to a dictator. this specific breed of bossy asshole lives in all places, but can sometimes be hard to find. when you do find him/her you'll know. they'll be really fucking annoying and want everyone to agree with what they say, and do what they say. the fucktator is a bothersome dumbass, a fucking dictator on a smaller scale.
What a fucking fucktator.

What's that?

That fucking guy over there.
fucktator by swimfromKOREA January 5, 2009
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fuckatorium 

The chamber where one goes to fuck and/or be fucked.
Welcome to my Fuckatorium.
fuckatorium by Needsome Cawknbawls November 13, 2005

Fucktatorship 

When your job is heavy handily run by management who doesn't care about you, and all they do is fuck you. Typically experienced by employees of contractor companies, and other non-union, or low wage jobs.
Me: Man I could use a break.

Boss-man: Get your ass back to work you need a break, I'll break my foot off in your ass your laid off!

Me: Break what break? I'm ready to roll boss-man! Damn I wanna drag up all this company does is fuck me and I need the money so I take that shit, this is a fucktatorship.
Fucktatorship by abrakadaver February 19, 2011

fuckatory 

The small fragment in the brain that acts as a factory for the fucks people give.
Doctor: Sir after that crash, you ruptured your brains fuckatory system.
fuckatory by Mr.$wag December 11, 2016

Fictator 

A person who tries to control what another person eats or when that person eats.

Food-dictator

FICTATOR
1) Damn, my Dad is a fictator! He is always telling me I eat too much!
2) food-dictator
Fictator by McAdaddy November 17, 2018

Fuckatory 

Similar to being in purgatory but used in a corporate environment. Caught in between doing what is right and doing what is right for the person above you.
Currently, I am caught in “Fuckatory”. I am trying to do what is best for my employees by notifying HR immediately, but it seems as though my boss believes I am undermining her. I am getting e’F’d at all angles.
Fuckatory by QuadLove February 15, 2020
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