Exposplaining

A Digitallighting variant where the perpetrator “explains” to the target why an exposé about them is justified, often in the exposé itself. The target is told that they “forced” the exposé by their behavior, that the exposé is actually a service to them, or that they should be grateful for the “accountability.” Exposplaining adds a layer of gaslighting to public call‑outs, making the target feel that their own actions caused the harm and that they should accept the punishment.

Example: “The 30‑minute video exposé ended with the creator saying ‘I hope this helps you grow.’ Exposplaining: framing a public dismantling as a favor.”

Exposplaining by Abzugal Nammugal Enkigal March 25, 2026

eurosplaining 

When Europeans smugly extol the virtues of their country in relation to the United States with respect to education and healthcare implying we don't actually know what's good for us and without heeding to and respecting the inertial power of the corporate oligarchy.

Many Western Europeans view the United States in such a broad brush strokes, they believe our issues are simple cases of widespread, willful ignorance rather than struggle against centuries of oligarchy. At cocktail parties, those afflicted feel compulsion to explain us into a state of enlightenment, scarcely realizing the extent of their eurosplaining with statements like, "We don't have any significant debt via education here in Germany. Seems like we are economically more feasible. Just a hint"

eurosplaining by DIlon Charles February 28, 2018

Eurosplaining 

When a European explains stupid Americans how the world really works.

Josh: "So he was eurosplaining me how his country has these cool benefits that comes with high taxes and shit. You know, free education and whatnot? They have more than two political parties, too. Shit's crazy, man."
Kyle: "Wait, there are free schools somewhere? And here I thought WE were free wtf."

Eurosplaining by DaisyTatsuki August 31, 2022

Expoxsplaining

A combination of expolighting and doxsplaining: an exposé that includes personal information is presented as a rational, justified explanation to the target and the audience. The perpetrator frames the release of addresses, workplaces, or family details as “necessary context” and explains in detail why the target’s own actions made the expoxxing inevitable. Expoxsplaining maximizes harm while maintaining a narrative of reluctant accountability.

Example: “The call‑out thread included her employer and photos of her children, with the author writing ‘I didn’t want to do this, but she left me no choice.’ Expoxsplaining: doxxing dressed as reluctant duty.”

Expoxsplaining by Abzugal Nammugal Enkigal March 25, 2026

Grindset

The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.

“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”

Grindset by Omega-Male May 22, 2026

jerb 

well known from south park
rednecks get angrry that future folk took there jobs so they yell
They took ouare jerbs!

Them future folk took ouare jerbs!

jerb by Jimberley Kim April 7, 2005

Cheeks 

An Irish phrase meaning shit, derived from ass
(Not to be confused with the literal description of one's buttocks)

"Did you hear the song Aylek$ dropped?"
"Hardly. Her music is absolute cheeks."

"My boyfriend say LaFlame is cheeks."
"Tell your boyfriend I said it's his mixtape that's cheeks."

Cheeks by thecartisan April 26, 2020