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A feminine or girly (see also: femboy) male, typically within a gay marriage/relationship. Boiwives fill the role of a traditional housewife in a gay relationship which includes cooking, cleaning, child reering (usually adopted or surrogate children).
Danny really loves cooking and cleaning for his boyfriend, Give him a little apron and he’d make good boiwife material
Boiwife by Jonathan Doesage July 27, 2023
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A boiwife is the laid-back, typically slightly more feminine counterpart of an androgynous lesbian relationship. Not femme, but not butch. Typically ensures that the husbutch stays grounded.
Nancy's new boiwife certainly knows how to throw a party.
boiwife by Roxy Toks January 16, 2018
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An appreciably younger male romantic partner, especially one inclined towards domesticity or care-giving.
Jim's apartment has been so much neater since he snagged that boywife from UCLA.
boywife by yuricoomerarashi June 7, 2021

Swiss Army Boywife 

Someone who is considered non-binary and genderfluid that is sexually versatile and a switch that strongly believes in being predominantly a "service bottom" and taking care of someone's needs either sexually, romantically, and platonically. They perpetuate the "femboy/thembo" aesthetic.
They're so awesome. I adore my Swiss Army Boywife!!
A feminine boy typically on female hormones who serves the traditional role of a wife by being homebound, cooking, and cleaning for his spouse. He is often submissive to his dominant spouse and derives deep pleasure from making their owner happy.
Man, your boywife does a such a good job cooking
Boywife by Boiwifey November 6, 2023
a boy you really like, and want to date. A boywife is a boy who is very sweet and cute that you’re talking to. Calling someone boywife is a step above boyfriend
Oh my god he’s so boywife”
“BOYWIFE!!!!”
boywife by sexyfwogie August 3, 2023
when a masculine aligned person (usually in a relationship) also identifies with the term "wife", not in a girl way, but in a sweet, passionate and wholesome way.
Pablo is so sweet, he is so boywife slay
boywife by quartzslayer May 19, 2022