A feminine or girly (see also: femboy) male, typically within a gay marriage/relationship. Boiwives fill the role of a traditional housewife in a gay relationship which includes cooking, cleaning, child reering (usually adopted or surrogate children).
Danny really loves cooking and cleaning for his boyfriend, Give him a little apron and he’d make good boiwife material
by Jonathan Doesage July 28, 2023
A boiwife is the laid-back, typically slightly more feminine counterpart of an androgynous lesbian relationship. Not femme, but not butch. Typically ensures that the husbutch stays grounded.
by Roxy Toks January 17, 2018