A pair of heterosexual girls who are really close friends. They are inseparable and may have serious future plans that include each other, such as rooming together in college/living together, and/or owning a bunch of cats together. The living situation is very similar to a Boston Marriage minus the lesbian aspect.
Bestbians are the female equivalent of a bromance.
-Katie ditched her boyfriend to help her bestbian paint her room.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.