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noun
A homosexual male; the male equivalent of a lesbian
(the term "gay" or "homosexual" can be used to describe both males and females but "tonker" is strictly male)
"As the election nears, the debate over tonker and lesbian marriage is a popular issue."

"I think Bryan is a tonker... he sucked that dude off"
tonker by smoothsailing August 29, 2012
Oh we got a tonker here.
Tonker by ! Mehrunes_Dagon ! January 6, 2021

tonker toy 

Oi put that away mate. This is a cake shop, you can't play with your tonker toy in here, there is enough fresh cream in the cakes
tonker toy by mitch00uk April 4, 2015

Tonker Bong 

jessica is a total tonker bong
Tonker Bong by gorlssss February 11, 2019

swonke tonker 

A state of getting drunk to the point you can barely walk and talk.
1Andy and Jason were the biggest swonke tonkers last Saturday.

2Kelley said she is going to get swonke tonked tonight.
swonke tonker by Grigg&Kellah February 6, 2014

honker tonker

a girls behind. this part is used to seduce a man.
damn that honker tonker is turning me on!
honker tonker by honky123456789 October 16, 2008
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