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the urge to murge 

The urge to murge means you want to have sex.
Will has the urge to murge with Grace.

urge to merge 

the tendency (usually attributed to lesbians) to become the same person. They start wearing the same outfits, doing everything together, essentially becoming the same person at the horror and disgust of their friends.
Alice: Have you seen Dana and Tanya, they are wearing the same outfit in similar colors.
Shane: must be the urge to merge.
urge to merge by shaazaaam December 21, 2008

urge to merge 

the term used in the gay community for the presumed tendency lesbians have of quickly moving together after dating for a short period of time. See U-haul lesbian.
Although not unique to lesbian couples, this behavior is stereotypically attributed to lesbians.
The comedian Lea DeLaria joked:

Q: What does a lesbian bring on the second date?

A: A U-haul.
The U-haul joke symbolizes the lesbian urge to merge.

urge to merge 

When two lesbians get together, and almost instananeously become THE SAME FUCKING PERSON.
trumpet and jeni got dat baaaaad urge to merge lolololol111!
urge to merge by lesbojo March 22, 2010

urge to merge 

Wanting to have sex; desire for intercourse; horny.
Hey honey, come over here, I gots the urge to merge!
urge to merge by Ignatz April 11, 2008

Write to Marge 

A phrase used when you don't believe someone's story, usually in supernatural / paranormal contexts.

Based on the writer Margaret Cribere, who was known for her P.O box where she accepted fan-mail from reader's telling their own wild stories. She lost credibility in her work later in her career and was defamed.
Person 1: And then I fell off the cliff and lived!

Person 2: Yeah right, why don't you Write to Marge.
Write to Marge by Marrco-Pollo July 24, 2025
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proper lad 

a lad that is such a lad that he is a proper lad
person1:did you see bob
person2: ya he was a proper lad
Word of the Day on October 29, 2026
The number of years you are still sexually active
While our lifespan is the number of years we will live, our healthspan is the number of healthy years we will have and our sexspan is is the number of years we will continue to be healthy enough to continue having an active sex life.
sexspan by Dr Kat April 21, 2022
Word of the Day on October 28, 2026
A lighthearted reaction upon receiving disappointing news of some sort. Usually something that isn't a particularly a big deal, esp. when it primarily affects someone else - sort of a mild schadenfreude. Sometimes doubled or tripled, and possibly said in a sing-songy voice for added comedic effect to imitate a muted trumpet, which is how the meme originated.
You didn't get any napkins with your takeout pork fried rice? Womp womp.
womp by 175623226 November 3, 2011
Word of the Day on October 27, 2026
When your wife’s boyfriend let you sleep past 8pm 😎😎
Wife’s boyfriend: You have 5 more minutes
Me: Poggers!
Poggers by Just_Charles April 14, 2020
Word of the Day on October 26, 2026

Oblication 

A vacation, feeling more like an obligation, that involves visiting or staying with family.
So Joe where are you taking the kids for spring break vacation? We are going on an oblication to Boca to visit my mother-in-law.
Oblication by kimmerr May 5, 2011
Word of the Day on October 25, 2026

Surf Dracula Syndrome 

A phenomenon in film/television series, most notably streaming series, where the main premise is drawn out to such a point that it takes an entire season or more to get the parts of the series the audience is actually interested in seeing.

For example, if a series is titled "Surf Dracula," a majority of viewers would tune in expecting to see Dracula surfing by the first or second episode. However, the entire first season would instead be tedious padding and backstory before finally ending with Dracula surfing in the last five minutes of the season finale.
I watched "Smallville" on Netflix the other day. Dude, it was ten seasons of filler before he finally flew! Major Surf Dracula Syndrome!
Word of the Day on October 24, 2026
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