When someone does something usually really stupid, or says something stupid, or makes no sense at all, then you give them a neck which is slapping the back of their neckhard (depending on what they did/say... if it's real stupid then you give it to them harder)
Garrick: Jennifer Alba looks hella good
Conan: you mean Jessica Alba?
Garrick : is that her name?
Conan : GIVE ME THAT NECK !
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.