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Gentle Femdom 

A subset of the Femdom family of kinks that emerged in rejection of (what was perceived to be) an unrealistically male-centered, violent, and unsentimental kind of femdom content that is popular on mainstream porn sites.

The gentle femdom community has substantial following on tumblr, reddit, and 4chan, with it's largest presence being on tumblr.
Lisa: I love gentle femdom, femdom is usually too much for me.
Gentle Femdom by lil-boy-bubblegum October 7, 2017

Squirt Femdom

Best performed by a taller woman on a shorter and feminine man. They are both hot. When a sexy super dominant goddess wearing a strap on harness with a super realistic dildo in it (a squirt dildo that can heat up and throb) ties up her sexy submissive partner.

When he is bound and helpless, she puts makeup and lipstick on him.

Then she lathers her realistic strap on cock and his thicc cheeks with lots of lube. Her synthetic cock can heat up, throb, and squirt and feels exactly like a real penis (yes, these kinds of dildos are real, but they are somewhat rare).

Then she calls him a good boy for being so submissive and breedable.

After this, she slides her cock into his tight bussy and listens to his vulnerable moans as they have passionate anal sex. After she is done fucking him, the squirt/ejaculate leaks out of his freshly fucked bussy.
Squirt Femdom by femdomguy7777 December 5, 2022

femdom facial 

Dominant woman forcing man to cum on his own face
A femdom facial is where the female instructs the male to prop himself upside down so his penis is above his mouth and she masturbates him until he cums onto his own face or open mouth. This is sometimes done while she fingers him or while pegging
femdom facial by horny poster May 30, 2014
Female Domination: A woman (or action in which a woman) dominates sexual interaction with her mate. See also dominatrix. This frequently (but not exclusively or absolutely) includes:

-) Humiliation of the sub. (submissive, slave)
-) Penetration of the sub. (incl. strap-ons, toys, etc).
-) Bondage / restraint of the sub.
-) "Water Sports"
He disrobed at the order of his femdom mistress.
Femdom by OtherJames October 5, 2005
Female Domination: A woman (or action in which a woman) dominates sexual interaction with her mate. See also dominatrix. This frequently (but not exclusively or absolutely) includes:
He disrobed at the order of his femdom mistress.
femdom by Oceanangel September 4, 2020
Short for Female Domination. The most wonderful form of BDSM. Unfortunately, it is made fun of in many movies.
The dominate one (Madame, Mistress, Domina, Dominatrix, Goddess) have complete control over the slave, such as:

-Whipping/Spanking
-Riding the slave like a pony
-Put leash and collar on the slave
-Facesitting
-Humiliate
-Bondage/Blindfold/Gag
-Penetrate with strap-on
-Make slaves lick boots
-Dress up slave like a maid,animal, etc.
-Use slave for sexual favors

Some (BAD) dominatrices use slaves as "money slaves", and make them pay for everything. Usually scammers.

Mostly used in sexual games, but some people also have a 24/7 relationship, where the Dominatrix is in charge of her slave/s all the time.

In other words; femdom is most of the time amazing. Check out OWK.cz (Other World Kingdom) for one of the better websites. Other examples are "Whipped Ass" and "Men In Pain".
The slave was having second thoughts about Femdom, as he was bending over, tied up, getting whipped and penetrated.
Femdom by Olydiga Gossen December 22, 2007
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trucker's tan 

A sunburn or suntan focused on the left arm. It is caused by the left side of the body being the only half that gets exposed to sunlight while driving. Presumably, it would be located on the right side of the body in countries where they drive on the left side of the road.
I had a trucker's tan after driving for 10 straight hours on a sunny day.
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Every time I walk into the toy aisle, I catch myself kidulting over the latest action figures and LEGO sets!
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British slang for a scientist or technical expert, esp . when the speaker is not certain of the expert’s specific field of study. Not necessarily derogatory, but typically used by persons without a technical background. In the US, the equivalent would be “egghead”, “squint”, or “geek.”

Origin of the word is unknown. Started sometime in World War 2. Given the typical evolution of British slang, could easily have started because what these experts did was confusing or “baffling” to the common person.
According to the boffins downstairs, the murderer used a serrated blade.
Boffin by Agnon February 11, 2023
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Pee Calculus

When you have to pee in a movie but don’t want to miss anything, and must do the following mental equation: will the amount I have to pee cause enough discomfort to diminish my attention capacity for the remainder of the movie to an extent which is greater than the amount of the movie I would miss by making a mad dash to the restroom.
I saw Satantango last night, wonderful film but by the 5th hour I had to start doing pee calculus.
Pee Calculus by anorlondo October 1, 2026
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Literally "dirty" pronounced with a West Indian accent. Can also have a positive connotation, for example Sean Paul's album title "Dutty Rock".
"The girl is pretty but she corrupt and dutty!"

or, in a positive usage:

"Booya! That freestyle was dutty!"
Dutty by J Hall April 3, 2003
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korean word for madam, older woman
Ajumma wait a moment
Ajumma by aintnotinbutnice July 5, 2009
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