The act of talking to a girl/boy before an almost definite sexual encounter, but for some unknown reason, the talk is the last thing you end up doing that night.
A: HeyPaddy, How'd you go with that Italian Backpacker?
B: Oh man, Got to her house and butched it out for 2 hours. I thought I was in!
A: Access Denied!!!
In male prisons, the condition of being turned out for sex and made into another man's prison-wife.
The crew on C-block snatched up that new pretty-boy soon as he hit yard for their punk. He's so bitched out now they got him walk around in Daisy Dukes and Kool-Aid lipstick.