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Adopteesplaining

Adopteesplaining is when people other than adoptees try to speak for adoptees as if they know what they are thinking, feeling, etc. Many adoptive parents seem to think they are the experts on the adopted experience, when the real experts are the adopted persons themselves. Only the people disconnected from their biological families and given falsified birth certificates can truly describe this experience correctly.

Adopteesplaining is often used by adoptoraptors who adopted a child to fulfill their own selfish needs and desires.
“Five year old Mary has been in foster care for 9 months and is so excited to be adopted by her foster family.” said the adoption agency worker. Mary did not speak for herself. Adopteesplaining was used to project feelings and thoughts about Mary and for Mary.
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An adopted person. This person has:
1. suffered the trauma of being legally and physically separated from his/her original parents.
2. learned to live with strangers who became his/her new family.
The adoptee loves his adoptive parents but still wants to search for his original family.
adoptee by gizmo+2 January 16, 2014

Smurffed Adoptee 

A feeling "blue" coming of age adopted child, whose adoptive parents will not or cannot provide him with information on his or her birth family.

There is only one known worse situation than being condemned to adopted smurffdom. This added predicament comes instantly to mind, when recognized, is that the victim must face the world as a freckle-faced, red-headed, adopted step-child!
"I'm feeling sad and blue," said the smurffed adoptee after newly informed of his non-being status.
Smurffed Adoptee by gravy111 November 14, 2010
God like being. Hot as Fuck and has the biggest dick and makes all the ladies moan. Tall and beautiful.
Guy- I wanna be like Adonte with a large dick
Adonte by D&d lord August 7, 2021
Abontee is a kind of person that stays in your mind forever. She's unique and has a deep perspective towards life. Her goal in life is to be happy and successful. She loves music and she loves to dance. She's easy to manipulate but also stands true to her opinions at the same time. She has high endurance to pain; both physical and emotional.

All in all, she's amazing and you can't get enough of her!
Abontee: Abontee is my favorite, you can't have her.
abontee by Lucianne (III) Bloom November 21, 2021
Her birth mother did not want her, so she became an adoptee and was adopted by a loving family.

This adoptee is quite and very loveable!
Adoptee by A Female Girl April 21, 2007