Adopteesplaining is when people other than adoptees try to speak for adoptees as if they know what they are thinking, feeling, etc. Many adoptive parents seem to think they are the experts on the adopted experience, when the real experts are the adopted persons themselves. Only the people disconnected from their biological families and given falsified birth certificates can truly describe this experience correctly.
Adopteesplaining is often used by adoptoraptors who adopted a child to fulfill their own selfish needs and desires.
“Five year old Mary has been in foster care for 9 months and is so excited to be adopted by her foster family.” said the adoption agency worker. Mary did not speak for herself. Adopteesplaining was used to project feelings and thoughts about Mary and for Mary.
An adopted person. This person has:
1. suffered the trauma of being legally and physicallyseparated from his/her original parents.
2. learned to live with strangers who became his/her new family.
A feeling "blue" coming of age adopted child, whose adoptive parents will not or cannot provide him with information on his or her birth family.
There is only one known worse situation than being condemned to adopted smurffdom. This added predicament comes instantly to mind, when recognized, is that the victim must face the world as a freckle-faced, red-headed, adopted step-child!
"I'm feeling sad and blue," said the smurffedadoptee after newly informed of his non-being status.
Abontee is a kind of person that stays in your mind forever. She's unique and has a deep perspective towards life. Her goal in life is to be happy and successful. She loves music and she loves to dance. She's easy to manipulate but also stands true to her opinions at the same time. She has high endurance to pain; both physical and emotional.
All in all, she's amazing and you can't get enough of her!
Abontee: Abontee is my favorite, you can't have her.