the killer Jeffrey Dohmer was always thaught to have been a class clown as defined by his classmates. whenever another classmate did something foolish or embarassing to himself or another individual, some would say the classmate was "doing a dohmer"
wow did you hear what stan did? oh man, he was totally "doing a dohmer"
The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.
“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”