She is a beautiful and loving human being. The friend that everyone needs and wants. She'sgot a great sense of humor, and if you don't know her, you might just think that she's odd, but she's more than that. She's the good listener that you need in your weakest moments. She's the lighthearted pal that you need when trying to stay calm. She's the steady minded person that you need moments before you give in to your desires. She laughs off everything, but carries a heavy heart for the love of those around her. She acts as if nothing bothers her, but the care she has for you if you get to know her is like none other. And, Venesha is the slow one. She is slow to act and slow to figure things out, but she's driven to still find her way.
"Dude, hurry up. What's taking you so long? Don't be a Venesha."
She's kind, gentle and supportive friends and lovers who use their incredible intellect and resourcefulness to problem-slove. She's humble and affectionate. Along with their desire to see the best in people, they are unfailingly kind and are always willing to help others. Venessha will genuinely make an effort to get to know their partner's interest and their mind, and is subtle in expressing their feelings and showing their affections. She just like a lucky charm that everyone want in life.
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.
FRIEND A: "Did you just take a stealthie of me?"
FRIEND B (turning phone around): "no I was just using snapchat's new filter, see?"
The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.
“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”