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Adj., toppiest, toppier

A term used in the BDSM scene to describe one's Top/Mistress/Sir/etc's dominant attitude towards the given situation.

See top as defined by user dijjn.
I was acting up yesterday and now my Sir is all toppy.

My Mistress is being the toppiest she has ever been lately.

Haha, my Sir is toppier then yours.
toppy by Snarkitty December 28, 2005
see muthafukking whoring nastyass, and dreamy
see the above example, nuff said!
toppy by lesbian wild child April 22, 2004
1. an evil whore... a legend on the internet in chatrooms around the world
2. a womanizing lesbian she-bitch
3. a woman who gets a new girlfriend only on the 19th so she can keep all the anniversaries of her various ho's straight
Girl 1: I fucked Toppy
Girl 2: You did?? So did I!!!
Girl 3: Oh my god I did too!!!
...
Girl 2,435: Are yall talkin about Topgun25us?
Girl 2,436: Holy shit yeah that's her!!
toppy by lesbian wild child April 22, 2004
There was this one time a girl walked him to sport. We’ve never heard the end of it…
'Who smells better, Anto or Toppy?'
'Hmm Toppy for sure'
toppy by gammell December 4, 2021
Adj. Dominant attitude; Someone who asserts themselves as the dominant one (context regardless)
NC: Adrian gets so toppy about cooking! Always had to be his way.

SC: Jax is so toppy.. left me limping!
Toppy by Thirty-Three OH 1 May 3, 2023

Toppy Notchy 

A small streamer who plays a variety of games on PS4 and streams on YouTube under the name: Toppy Notchy
Have you seen Toppy Notchy play Call of Duty?
Toppy Notchy by Toppy Notchy December 11, 2020
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