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A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.
Pick me: If a man cheats on you, it's probably because you your fault. Be feminine! Make him food! Clean his ass hole!

Rational person: Shut up psycho
Pick me by 84848cheese December 1, 2020
Word of the Day on July 20, 2021
1. A person who begs for the attention, acceptance and approval of a certain group in different things they say. In most case, it's to attain the attention, acceptance and approval of the opposite sex.

2. Someone who enjoys & finds empowerment in doing things that make their significant other happy.
You're a Pick Me ass hoe.
Pick Me by Tymeros May 13, 2016
the term “pick me” is a term used to refer to people who feed into narratives that are personally oppressive to them in an attempt to gain the approval, attention and/or validation of their oppressor. an example of this is a woman who puts down other women and feeds into misogynistic stereotypes in order to seem more appealing to sexist men in hopes of gaining their approval.
1. Becky always makes sexist jokes, makes fun of and shames rape victims, and shames other women when she’s around groups of men. Every time she’s around a guy- especially when she knows for sure he’s sexist- she will call other women dishwashers & go out of her way to put down the women around them with insults based in misogyny. She’s such a “pick me.
pick me by casscafe April 27, 2021
The type of person who constantly begs for attention and approval, and has to make EVERYTHING about themselves. Will do anything to get attention and approval, including bringing other people down.
“Alright kids, so we’ll be picking people to kick off this ma-“

“OOH! PICK ME! PICK ME! I’M THE BEST AT DOING THESE KICK-OFFS AND WAY BETTER THAN ALL THESE OTHER PEOPLE WHO DON’T EVEN HAVE 1 BRAINCELL! I’M GONNA BE SO GOOD, EVEN THE BEST IN THE WORLD, YOU HAVE NO IDEA! PLEASE JUST PICK ME!”
Pick me by nlolhere August 8, 2021
Embarrassing herself for attention. Annoying wannabe who will literally go to any lengths for the attention of the boys/men. (pick me, choose me)
"Keira Lynn Bennett is such a pick me. It's annoying. She thinks she's the shit but she's really not."
Pick me by Lauren Ross September 19, 2021
men and women, who say and do stuff, to seek validation from the opposite gender, via putting their own gender down.
“Amanda just slut-shamed me in front of the guy I like”.. “ugh she’s such a pick-me”
Pick-me by Katja40 March 18, 2021
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Being ignored by someone when making a statement or asking a question. Also known as blanked and turfed.
Person 1: Did u watch ** last nite?
Person 2:......
Person 3: O no u got aired!
aired by Pietro February 9, 2005
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piddlefart

Instead of doing my homework, I decided to piddlefart around for two hours.
piddlefart by Rene April 25, 2005
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anyone who succeeds in disgracing/over indulging themselves in the throws of clubland
28 hours and 4 clubs later, gurning for england but still refusing to go home - a total wrongun!!
wrongun by bevvers March 21, 2007
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square grouper

Nickname given to bales of marijuana thrown overboard or out of airplanes. Origin is reportedly from members of the US Coast Guard in the area of Southern Florida.
"Base we've got some square groupers floating outside of Miami harbor."
square grouper by slipsheet November 6, 2004
Word of the Day on October 7, 2026
A girl who does ballet and only talks about ballet. Her schedule is filled with dance classes which does not allow her to do any other activity.
"Hey, do you know that girl Sally?"

"Yeah, she's kind of annoying. All she ever talks about it ballet."

"Wow, what a Bunhead."

"Hey Sally, you want to hang out this weekend?"
"I can't, I have dance."
"You're such a Bunhead."

"Yeah... I know."
Bunhead by Jen00 October 24, 2014
Word of the Day on October 6, 2026

trucker's tan 

A sunburn or suntan focused on the left arm. It is caused by the left side of the body being the only half that gets exposed to sunlight while driving. Presumably, it would be located on the right side of the body in countries where they drive on the left side of the road.
I had a trucker's tan after driving for 10 straight hours on a sunny day.
Word of the Day on October 5, 2026
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