A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.

Someone who used to be a potential girlfriend/boyfriend, but no longer is.

1. A person who begs for the attention, acceptance and approval of a certain group in different things they say. In most case, it's to attain the attention, acceptance and approval of the opposite sex.

2. Someone who enjoys & finds empowerment in doing things that make their significant other happy.

men and women, who say and do stuff, to seek validation from the opposite gender, via putting their own gender down.

the term “pick me” is a term used to refer to people who feed into narratives that are personally oppressive to them in an attempt to gain the approval, attention and/or validation of their oppressor. an example of this is a woman who puts down other women and feeds into misogynistic stereotypes in order to seem more appealing to sexist men in hopes of gaining their approval.

A PickMe is a woman who is operating in a state of desperation, feminine devaluation, and is content with toxic validation from men. This is a woman whose actions display high amounts of insecurities and lack of self worth so much so that she is grateful for the mere existence of a male giving her any form of attention. This woman has no requirements that extends beyond his shaft and zero standards that she is willing to stand by. She is also male identified to various degrees depending on the type of PickMe she is.

a pick me is a person who says unusual or outrageous statements for the validation of a race,gender,or other people.