Demanding a level of commitment from someone in a
relationship, as if they should have read your
mind. A way of keeping someone focused on their own faults, keeping you
safe and secure from reproach.
With my girlfriend, not only did I have to remember all the holidays and what we did and wore that
day, I had to remember everthing we
said to each other and know what kind of gift she wanted and how I was supposed to present them to her. What a
perfection abuse hell I had to live through!!