Skip to main content
A person who lets life just happen without any meaningful ambitions or goals, and barely any effort to forge their own unique path. They also tend to see themselves as less than others, expecting less in all aspects of life.
Frank: Hey John, what happened with that girl you were texting?
John: Oh, she left me, apparently I'm a passby.
Passby by VFbolt November 15, 2023
Urban Dictionary Merch
Your favorite words on things you can wear, drink from, read, or give to a friend.
The Urban Dictionary Store sells gifts you’ll have to explain.

Portland Passback 

It's where you freeze your poo, and put it up your mate's bum. Then he poos it back in to your hand.
Hey mate, we're bro's, right? Lets do a Portland Passback!
Portland Passback by SelfishSi June 10, 2018
Related Words

Awkward Pass-by 

When two or more groups of people talking amongst themselves pass each other and making quick eye contact but not speaking, usually among teens. The remedy is laughing loudly or pretending like what you're talking about is so absorbing you just don't notice the other party slowly walking by.
One group of gabbing girls pass a group of punks on the street, and they both vaguely know each other from the cafeteria but quickly look away.

GIRL: Wow .. . that was such an awkward pass-by . ..
Awkward Pass-by by ilytoo April 20, 2009

Passback 

The passing of a female companion after An alpha male (DB) has his way with her excluding all emotional ties, to a friend in the circle that has interest.
Hey bro...The girl from last night is going to be a passback to you.
Passback by Passback September 4, 2014

passy puss 

A phrase used for a passenger princess
My girl is such a passy puss
passy puss by Tatwss January 15, 2023
Term used for a gay male's asshole in connection with it being like a vagina during gay sex. Combination of the terms "ass and pussy."
"I fucked my boyfriend's passy last night, and he queefed!"
"You are wearin' my passy out, boy!"
passy by CertifiedQueer September 13, 2011
To be lame and not participate for lack of a good reason.

It is derived from the combination of "passing for pussy ass reasons".

See :lame weak weaksauce uncool loser pussy pathetic
Example 1:

A - "Hey wanna go out to the bar tonight and get drunk?"
B - "Naw imma passy, i was gonna sign up for a gym membership"
A - "At 10:00 pm on a friday? Lame..."
passy by b00n k1n June 13, 2008
More from Urban Dictionary

You met me at a very Chinese time in my life

A moment in time where you feel distinctly Chinese over all other things.
Dante: "I wish I could be Nigerian, but I can't because I'm Chinese. You met me at a very Chinese time in my life."
Word of the Day on September 25, 2026
Adjective. Used to describe persons who have adjusted or altered their lifestyle for environmental reasons. Crunchy persons tend to be politically strongly left-leaning and may be additionally but not exclusively categorized as vegetarians, vegans, eco-tarians, conservationists, environmentalists, neo-hippies, tree huggers, nature enthusiasts, etc.

Also used to describe establishments where alternative foods and products are sold, i.e. natural food stores.

Modified derivative of granola.
"I need more crunchy guys in my life. I'm so tired of dating preppy metrosexual assholes."

"I'm heading out to the crunchy store to pick up some fair trade chocolate and tea tree oil, do you need anything?"
crunchy by EBC July 11, 2007
Word of the Day on September 24, 2026
A group of people, typically women, searching through someone’s digital footprint in order to find more information about that person.
Susie wasn’t sure if her new Hinge match was a creep, so she assembled Galantir and they found out he used to post slurs on gaming forums.
Galantir by Ge-sus September 22, 2026
Word of the Day on September 23, 2026

murderhobo 

In a tabletop game, a murderhobo is a player who murders NPCs indiscriminately. This is normally derogatory, referring to a player who totally ignores quests, dialog, backstory, trade, world building etc.

The term is most common with Dungeons and Dragons, but it can be applied to most RPGs where the player is allowed to kill most quest-giving NPCs and NPC traders. E.g. Elder Scrolls, Fallout, Divinity original sin.
DM: The sad little orphan girl tugs at Steve's trenchcoat to get his attention, and ask for help saving her pet dog from...
Steve: I'd like to roll a strength check against strangling the orphan.
Dave: I call dibs on the dog.
DM: You murderhobos disgust me.
murderhobo by Loup&S September 9, 2021
Word of the Day on September 22, 2026
In sales terms, a whale is a prospect that is significantly larger than an organization’s average customer.

Whales are large and extremely difficult to close. Due to their immense size, they are highly sought-after.

A whale is typically identified at first by a whale hunter on the sales team, but often requires cross-discipline participation in order to close; this includes assistance from operations, engineering, creative, client success, and business development teams.
"Shit...the sales director chewed me out on the sales call this morning. He's totally pissed that I have nothing in my pipeline. I've been focused on this one whale for so long that I haven't had time to prospect for normal-sized deals."
Whale by FQ_GFY February 3, 2020
Word of the Day on September 21, 2026

Concrete cowboy 

A guy who thinks he's a country kinda guy, but in reality lives a comfortable city / suburban life.
Eugene: Look at that dude in the cowboy hat!
Todd: He's just a concrete cowboy.
Word of the Day on September 20, 2026
Next