Overthinking - the act of obsessively analyzing a situation, decision, or conversation to the point of creating unnecessary stress, self-doubt, or imaginary problems. Often leads to indecisiveness, anxiety, and wasted time.
"Bro, just text her already! Stop the OVT, she’s probably just busy."
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.