The state of keeping one's own nerdom hidden from others, including friends, family and coworkers. Often used to cover a deep-seated nerdom to appear
normal to others. One can usually attain this state by withholding certain aspects of, or strong touches to, their own personality, or by keeping slightly at a distance. Keeping this up is
made easier by not revealing many nerdy
facts about onself.
"
Jared's still incognerdo with his girlfriend. He still hasn't told her that he loves
anime. One sniff of that kind of information and she'll be onto him, and know just how
big of a dork he is."