The act of taking one option over the other without real regard for what the mainstream would consider sound logic, making this act bold and brave. Rather Having is not to be confused with preferring something, which any loser can do.
Circa 2009 one would preferDwight Howard to Ronny Turiaf, but a brave soul would be rather having Ronny.
To have motion means to be accomplishing things at a good speed, most likely has there own apartment, car, on the path to starting a career, also to have enough money to support yourself and your habits.