When you really want to
ask someone a question, mostly to find out the newest gossip, but are too respectful of their privacy to ask.
For example, if your
friend shares some sweet goss and you really want to know more about it, but they'
re shy and not offering any unprompted information, and you really want to know more, but you decide not to ask, that's goshing.
"Oh, I'm goshing to hear about your 'good
time' the other
night."
"You could really tell how much he was goshing to
ask me about you, but he didn't say a word."