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Gendergender

When someone experiences a gender, but it is unexplainable, and can be only identified as gender.
"Their gender is unexplainable, they are gendergender."
Gendergender by 5fi5ve5 September 24, 2022

Russian genderbender 

When a Russian chick fucks you so hard you forget your gender
Robert: I heard Lucy gives a killer Russian genderbender
Noah: Hell yeah it was great. It was super confusing though.
Russian genderbender by Chan095 March 21, 2017

gendertender 

Similar in use to femanazi or mansplainer, it is the portmanteau of gender and tender relating to perceived over-sensitivity on issues relating to gender.
I can't believe how many men are SO incredibly upset the next Doctor Who is a woman, they're a bunch of gendertender manbabies.
gendertender by monkeypants2.5 July 17, 2017

gendermandering 

manipulate the boundaries of a gender so as to favor one party or class.
Had it not been for (insert name here)'s gendermandering, 'taco Tuesday' and 'wiener Wednesday' would never have been combined into one event.
gendermandering by Tadrackets April 4, 2017

gendertrender 

Someone, typically a female on tumblr, who makes up and claims to be a certain gender in an attempt to feel unique. They may claim to be demiboy/genderfluid/agender/stargender. Gendertrenders will make up genders and claim gender is social construct, while sadly shitting on the trans community by making it look like a joke. These people also seem to contradict themselves on whether or not clothes have a gender, and will demand you refer to them as xe or bunself.
Common tumblr profile of a gendertrender: I'm a sapiosexual-pansexual queer fat femme demigirl . Non-binary. Pronouns are bun/bunself. I have undiagnosed depression and adhd. Ask before follwing-no cis white men!
gendertrender by FriedFrogs March 26, 2016

genderbender bathroom 

The restrooms, bathrooms and locker rooms which are now all unisex based on gender identity protection laws. You can choose to identify as male, female or transgendered and go into the restroom, bathroom or locker room of your choice. gender identity, transgendered, LGBT, gay, lesbian, bisexual, queer, President Obama, Obama, restroom, bathroom, locker room, queerestroom, ladyboy lavatory
I'm still confused with the new gender identity laws. I went into the restroom and there was a guy in a dress and heels freshening up. I thought I had gone into the women's restroom by mistake, so this genderbender bathroom thing has got me tripping.
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Frothability 

The measure of an emotional and over zealous consumer in an upwardly charging market, also known as a bull market. It's characterized by rising asset prices, increased investor confidence, and favorable growth in the markets, bro.
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Soul digger

A man who dates women with the sole purpose of exploiting their time, energy, and labor while he sucks the joy and happiness from their lives.
"That guy's a soul digger. He'll expect you to work full time, but you'll be doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, and childcare while he plays video games or watches TV."
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pod person 

A person pretending to be something they aren't, or an impostor. This is inferred because of the old alien movies where alien pods appear on earth and the "pod people" dispose of the humans and slowly reproduce the bodies, pretending to be humans.
The pod person was pretending to be my father, but I knew that he was an alien when he acted differently than my father ever would have.
pod person by Christopher M. May 9, 2005
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A dead drop is a location used to secretly pass items between two people, without requiring them to meet.

Spies have been known to use dead drops, using various techniques to hide the items and to signal that the drop has been made. Drug dealers use this as well.

A common place is to duct tape the item to the underside of a toilet cover in a public restroom.

A signal is sometimes used as well to indicate there is something to pickup, like a pile of stones in a certain formation. After checking the drop the signal is removed.
"The dead drop is the restroom toilet at the Gulf station at the corner of Commercial Ave. and Georges Rd."
dead drop by rubberroom July 23, 2008
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