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Person who thinks all gay people are the same.

Person who believes in the gay stereotype.
''So, you're gay?''
''Yeah''
''I have a friend who's gay. You wanna go on a date with him?''

1st person is being a gaycist because he automatically believes they will have something in common based solely on their sexual preferences.
gaycist by tvwatcher222 November 26, 2011
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prejudice or discrimination against a homosexual person.
Knox was being a gaycist when he said all fags need to die.
gaycist by Ali D September 4, 2008
a person who is prejudiced against homosexuals
don't be such a gaycist
gaycist by peacelover621 March 13, 2009
It's when your gay and a racist
Tyler your a god damn Gaycist!
Gaycist by TheGaycist September 25, 2019
Adj. Akin to the colloquial term of Homophobia -

Exhibiting prejudice, discrimination, and bias-driven antagonism towards individuals based on their sexual orientation, especially those identifying as gay, lesbian, or queer, who may belong to marginalized group.

Such attitudes are often fueled by unfounded beliefs and unreasonably attached to societal norms and stereotypes, leading to the perpetuation of harmful biases and exclusionary behaviors.

For those in denial of their homophobia, who love to proclaim, "I'm not scared of the gays! I'm not homophobic! Homophobia isn't a real word, it's just 'phobia' which means fear!"

Introducing them to the term: Gaycist. It's an easily understandable alternative that even the most befuddled among these people should USUALLY not struggle to grasp. No fear involved, just blatant prejudice.

This term highlights the connections between racism and homophobia, allowing certain self aware individuals to acknowledge "phobia" isn't just about fear or lack of understanding, but also to reflect on the systemic and unjust treatment they get.
Guy 1: How am I homophobic? You don't see me crying and trembling when I see a gay lmao. I just don't agree with their life choices.

Guy 2: Oh I see, you're one of those guys. How about gaycist? seems fitting to me.
Gaycist by Neoslayer July 17, 2023
Someone who is anti-gay; a homophobic person.
"I didn't really like that gay guy."
"What are you some sort of gaycist?!"
gaycist by Brapt November 24, 2009
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Frothability 

The measure of an emotional and over zealous consumer in an upwardly charging market, also known as a bull market. It's characterized by rising asset prices, increased investor confidence, and favorable growth in the markets, bro.
The frothability was evident as over-zealous consumers eagerly engaged in bidding wars, driving property prices to unsustainable levels reminiscent of previous speculative bubbles.
Frothability by cptn.kagaroo1 January 26, 2024
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Soul digger

A man who dates women with the sole purpose of exploiting their time, energy, and labor while he sucks the joy and happiness from their lives.
"That guy's a soul digger. He'll expect you to work full time, but you'll be doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, and childcare while he plays video games or watches TV."
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pod person 

A person pretending to be something they aren't, or an impostor. This is inferred because of the old alien movies where alien pods appear on earth and the "pod people" dispose of the humans and slowly reproduce the bodies, pretending to be humans.
The pod person was pretending to be my father, but I knew that he was an alien when he acted differently than my father ever would have.
pod person by Christopher M. May 9, 2005
Word of the Day on November 10, 2026
A dead drop is a location used to secretly pass items between two people, without requiring them to meet.

Spies have been known to use dead drops, using various techniques to hide the items and to signal that the drop has been made. Drug dealers use this as well.

A common place is to duct tape the item to the underside of a toilet cover in a public restroom.

A signal is sometimes used as well to indicate there is something to pickup, like a pile of stones in a certain formation. After checking the drop the signal is removed.
"The dead drop is the restroom toilet at the Gulf station at the corner of Commercial Ave. and Georges Rd."
dead drop by rubberroom July 23, 2008
Word of the Day on November 9, 2026

No Surprises Wedding

A "No Surprises Wedding," or NSW, is a wedding invitation designation that tells attendees that there can be no unplanned announcements, engagements, events or speeches at the wedding - all actions must be pre-approved by the couple. Anyone who performs an unapproved "surprise" will be asked to leave the wedding early.

This designation comes from Reddit, where so many stories of bad wedding behavior indicated a need to communicate expectations for the wedding behavior of attendees.
You are cordially invited to the nuptials of Brian and Tom on October 31 at noon.

Please note that this wedding is child-free (under 10) and a No Surprises Wedding (NSW). Reach out to wedding planner Sami Smith to request approvals or exceptions; please note that exceptions will be rare. Limited child care for under-10s will be available. All approvals will be noted and included in planning. Unapproved, or surprise exceptions, will result in guests being asked to leave.
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Ulzzang true definition is "best & "face" = best face in korean. They are basically people with above average looks, sometimes with the use of photoshop and haduri who post their pics online, some becoming internet celebrities.
"Hey, see that chick over there? She's pretty enough to be an ulzzang. :D"
ulzzang by `r i k kit t y February 26, 2008
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