femtom

a tomboy who still identifies with feminine aesthetics

or

a femboy who still identifies with masculine aesthetics

How come Alex has a pixie cut but still wears frilly skirts?

She's a femtom.

by Dev Valentine December 11, 2021

Femtom

1. Someone who is both a femboy and a tomboy.
2. Someone who is both male and female and also androgynous or both masculine and feminine.

Origin: Fem (derived from Femboy) + Tom (derived from Tomboy)

They were both masculine and feminine making them a femtom.

by Shugunou November 7, 2023