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Expoxlighting

A combination of expolighting and doxlighting, where an exposé includes personal information—address, employer, family details—as part of the “accountability” package. The perpetrator presents the personal information as necessary context for the exposé, gaslighting both the target and the audience into believing that doxxing is a legitimate part of holding someone “accountable.” Expoxlighting maximizes harm while maintaining a veneer of righteousness.
Example: “The ‘call‑out’ thread included her employer, her university, and photos of her children, all under the claim that ‘people deserve to know who they’re dealing with.’ Expoxlighting: doxxing dressed as justice.”
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Expolighting

A digitallighting technique that uses exposés—public threads, videos, or documents—to gaslight a target. The exposé presents selective, often decontextualized “evidence” to portray the target as malicious, unhinged, or abusive. The target is then forced to either respond (which is framed as further evidence of instability) or remain silent (which is framed as an admission of guilt). Expolighting weaponizes the genre of “accountability” to systematically distort reality and destroy reputations.
Example: “The 40minute YouTube video compiled her out‑of‑context replies from five years, presented with ominous music and a narrator claiming she was a serial harasser—expolighting, using the form of an exposé to erase context.”
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A toe rag was originally a foot wrapping used, since mediaeval times up until the mid-nineteenth century, to protect the foot from chafing by boots or shoes. As these were, quite literally, rags they weren’t usually washed, and so with use they became very smelly until they were thrown away. Because of the similarity in smell, toe rag also became the name applied to dried, salted cod or other things with a strong, unpleasant, fishy smell. It didn’t take that long before the name was applied to someone who was an obnoxious, unpleasant OIC.
1 “Socks! Those aren’t socks you smelly git, they’re toe rags!”
2 “What have you been cooking? Smells like toe rag!”
3 “I can smell ‘er fanny from ‘ere, proper toe rag.”
4 That Heale Malcolm is a right toe rag.
Toe Rag by AKACroatalin November 29, 2016
Word of the Day on July 24, 2026

Eternity leave 

When some resigns or retires from a job, they are on "eternity leave". This can also refer to someone who has passed away, especially someone who worked somewhere for a long time, retired/resigned, then passed away later.
Oh I'm sorry, you didn't know that Kelly is on eternity leave? She resigned and moved to Hawaii!

With regrets I would like to inform you that my boss is officially on eternity leave. I will never see or hear them again. Ever.
Eternity leave by LingDanc803 February 7, 2023
Word of the Day on July 23, 2026
The hypothetical man (often a sinister character who decided not to go to boot camp) that is doing your girlfriend/wife while you are on deployment overseas.
Ain't no use in goin home,
Jody's got your girl and gone.
Ain't no use in goin back,
Jody's got your Cadillac,
Ain't no use in feeling blue,
Jody's took your checkbook too.
jody by Sgt Apan March 31, 2006
Word of the Day on July 22, 2026

girl grip 

The ability girls and women have developed to hold several items at once in one hand. The skill has been developed due to the lack of pockets in women's clothing.
I thought she'd need multiple trips to carry her phone, keys, wallet, and Starbucks to her car since she needed the other hand to open the door, but she used her impressive girl grip to carry everything in one hand.
girl grip by SillyMilly33 July 31, 2023
Word of the Day on July 21, 2026

Condiment home

A term that refers to one persons household hold nothing but ingredients and condiments in the kitchen area
Person A: Hey dude you got some snacks?
Person B: Nah, i live in a fucking condiment home...
Word of the Day on July 20, 2026