When you are taunted for being left out of a
conversation about an approach to a problem or issue. For instance, if you are jockeying a bunch of horses and you do not make it out to the local chain
restaurant or bar and subsequently miss out on a crucial
conversation about the geldings. You are therefore approach the race at a disengaged angle.
(In an address to the disengaged) "you should be around here because
you know what there is a lot of
information being passed and you're missing it and I
don't want you to be at a disengaged angle."