When you are taunted for being left out of a conversation about an approach to a problem or issue. For instance, if you are jockeying a bunch of horses and you do not make it out to the local chain restaurant or bar and subsequently miss out on a crucial conversation about the geldings. You are therefore approach the race at a disengaged angle.
(In an address to the disengaged) "you should be around here because you know what there is a lot of information being passed and you're missing it and I don't want you to be at a disengaged angle."
by THOF April 2, 2017