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aftercare 

Post-sex wind-down ritual; recharging (i.e. relaxing, cuddling, soft pillow talk, listening to each other's heartbeats, soft kisses).
According to G. Smith, and R. Varina, "If you're not already doing it after sex (aftercare), you should be."
aftercare by talk2me-JCH2 December 5, 2022

Aftercare 

Coming down from subspace after having some form of sexual intercourse and then being taken care of. The care after sex. It can be cuddles, bathing, etc
After I fucked my sub out good, I washed him up in the bathtub and snuggled with him for aftercare.
Aftercare by strawberry cunt March 22, 2021

aftercare 

The psychological or physical care either a Dominant or submissive receives after playing in kink, BDSM, or fetish situations.
"She is going to need a tremendous amount of aftercare after she does that needle play!"

"I need to give myself some aftercare after flogging for that long!"
aftercare by Domme Danielle November 21, 2011

E-Aftercare 

Aftercare but for E-sex. Typically consists of buying the other party V-Bucks
John: Wow thats some amazing E-Sex, Imma log off now
Jen: Yeah, so no E-Aftercare?
E-Aftercare by PurplerMango December 31, 2024

Afterbate 

The akward moments after you masturbate and you clean up the jizz, put your clothes back on, think about how fucked up you are, etc...
Jack: "yo I just walked in on tom wiping his cock with tissues"
Tim: "ugh you saw him afterbate
Afterbate by M193 January 22, 2014

after care  

In BDSM play, the quiet period immediately following a "scene" between the Top/Dom and the bottom/sub; often includes cuddling, talking, gradually returning to the real world.
When your soul has been exposed, after care is a wonderful time to feel cherished.
after care by zajal December 28, 2008
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We have a Zoom meeting in a few minutes and I’ll probably go pajama casual.
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I’m trying to go to this Taylor Swift concert but the funflation has made it so impossible for me to afford tickets.
funflation by Dfree523 November 17, 2023
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