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In BDSM play, the quiet period immediately following a "scene" between the Top/Dom and the bottom/sub; often includes cuddling, talking, gradually returning to the real world.
When your soul has been exposed, after care is a wonderful time to feel cherished.
by zajal December 28, 2008
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The psychological or physical care either a Dominant or submissive receives after playing in kink, BDSM, or fetish situations.
"She is going to need a tremendous amount of aftercare after she does that needle play!"

"I need to give myself some aftercare after flogging for that long!"
by dommedanielle November 21, 2011
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