When a woman has control over a man by means of her vagina and/or violent rantings and door knocks.
Dude! My girlfriend showed up lastnight and I couldn't dump her cause she wanted to fuck. There was so much vagilence. If I didnt do it shed be outside banging on my door and swearing for hours.
Vawulence simply means Violence, it's a Nigerian slang that started as a means of escaping Facebook ban and restrictions in comment section for using the original phrase "violence" that seems to has been blacklisted.
12 step recovery jargon referring to someone new who talks about how great life is, now that they'resober. Usually meaning that the person is out of touch with reality.
The new guy seems pretty happy for a dude who has no job, no money and no family. He must be on a pink cloud.