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the way she goes 

A phrase used in the aftermath of a catastrophe in order to attribute the event's occurrence to some external, uncontrollable factor.
Ray, after gambling away the boys' drink money: "Lost all the liquor money, boys."

Julian: "What?"

Ray: "That's the way she goes."

Bubbles: "That's the way she goes?"

Ray: "That's right - that's the way she goes. That's what I said - "

Bubbles: "So you lost all our drink money is what 'she goes' - she's gone."

Ray: "That's right - that's the way she goes. Sometimes she goes, sometimes it doesn't. She didn't go. That's the way she goes."

Bubbles, being interviewed moments later: "It was gonna be the best night ever, now it's the worst night ever. Fuckin' 'way she goes', he said, fuckin' way she goes..."

-Trailer Park Boys
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It's the way she goes 

1. A term/phrase used when laying down the law without wanting to explain or having a need to explain.

Typically used when someone asks "why" or extent of to a responsibility they don't want to fulfill.

for best results raise the voice a bit, say "Its the way" *pause* then add "SHE GOES!".
It's the way she goes.

Boyfriend to Girlfriend: Can you please stop talking to me about your feelings while I am watching the Hockey game.

Girlfriend: Well I just think its important that we talk about this now, do you not care that I am upset....

Boyfriend: IT'S THE WAY.....SHE GOES!!

Also works great on kids.
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