A person who calmly strolls around your "mutual" shared home, hovering around, gathering his/hers belongings to be ready for exiting in a jiffy, soon becoming your ex.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.