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startender 

The best bartender of all, who rises above the pressure of a crowded bar when other bartenders would crack under pressure. Also the most liked bartender, and usually the highest paid bartender as well.
This guy is slinging drinks for a crowd of over 200 people and he's not even sweating. Wow what a startender!
startender by MrBojangles062 February 22, 2017

Startender 

The practice hero of the bar industry, usually taking up all the air in the room trying to be the center of attention to the customers. Relishes when drunken morons call their name because it adds to their self-importance, and overcomplicates even the most basic of drinks.
"This guy's been here two weeks and you can tell he's turning into a know-it-all startender."
Startender by The_Informant77 October 19, 2021

startender 

one who doesn't actually bartend but is there to think about it, show off, and make themselves look cool (when in reality they look foolish); not someone you want to work behind your bar
the startender stood against the well rubbing his chin wondering if he felt like bartending today.
startender by letstacoboutit May 29, 2016

STARRADER 

This guy is such a starrader
STARRADER by Totallynotanoov October 1, 2021

Startender 

A startender is a bartender that is always on point, they have the knowledge and skill set needed to make an array of fantastic cocktails. They are both friendly and fast-paced with their service. Nothing fazes a startender, no amount of volume or pressure can make a startender crack. Providing the best service and best drinks is all this bartender has on their mind. They are well liked by everyone and make good money thanks to the effort they put in behind the bar.
“The startenders at Sherwood’s in Jacksonville, Florida are the best!”
“The drinks are really flowing thanks to this startender!”
Startender by sherwoods August 2, 2023
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