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A sfenist is a person (usually female, but can be a male), who has the biological and genetic ability to have sexual relations, but is unable (or has a strong repulsion) to have sex, because of a violent past. Sfenists are born like every people, but at some point, a violent incident (more usual sexual abuse, like a rape or child abuse) affected them beyond recovery.

Sfenists are hard to distinguish from other people. They act like everyone, even if they might have some personality problems after the incident that made them sfenists. Some have a tendency to isolate themselves, others can be independent and always willing to take initiative. Usually, they are opened and communicative like every other person.

Depending on their past trauma, they try to avoid certain situations: a crowded beach (where people are almost naked, if they were naked during the incident), a crowded bus in summer (if people sweat make them remember the sweat of their aggressor) or men with strong temper. Also, sfenists try to avoid being touched in certain areas (for example at their neck if the aggressor held a knife there).

Sfenist girls are attractive to guys, but there is almost no way one can get to bed with them.
That girl is hot! How can I get to know her?

You won't. No guy could take her to bed, ever.

Why not? Is she sworn to be a virgin?

No. She is a sfenist.
sfenist by SfeniSSfenistGirl August 20, 2017
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An adjective used to describe the sinister fashions, trends or sayings perpetuated by "scene" or "plastic" people. All the crap pop culture tries to sell us on.
Biggs: Have you seen Terra's new hat?

Wedge: Yeah, that's some scenister shit, bro.

She replied with a scenister remark, showing how obviously vapid and unoriginal she was.
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An adjective used to describe the vile fashions, trends or sayings perpetuated by "scene" or "plastic" people. All the crap pop culture tries to sell us on.
Biggs: Have you seen Terra's new hat?

Wedge: Yeah, that's some scenister shit, bro.

She replied with a scenister remark, showing how obviously vapid and unoriginal she was.
A person who holds strong prejudice towards scene kid's.
I'm a proud scenist, Converge have no talent and that's a fact!
(adj. ) Sexy and feisty. Especially when referring to arts and crafts
Me: Where is the glue gun?
Jenni: I'm using it to make a macaroni portrait of Jacque Gustav kissing a whale shark
Me: Sfeisty stuff.
Sfeisty by pianoasis May 8, 2020
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(Ewokese) Freedom!
And dying in yo' bed many years from now, would ya be willing ta trade all da days from dis here day ta dat fo' one chance, just one chance, ta come back here as young men an' tell our enemies dat dey may take our lives but dey will never take our freedom ... YUB NUB!
yub nub by rotjrem November 4, 2010
Word of the Day on September 4, 2026
1. Meaning nasty, sexy, filthy. Popularized by Christina Aguilera.

2. Used usally as a close friend in hip-hop slang.
1. Wanna get dirrty
It's about time that I came to start the party Sweat drippin' over my body
Dancin' gettin' just a little naughty

2. Sup Dirrty? Haven't seen you in a while.
dirrty by Minty November 30, 2003
Word of the Day on September 3, 2026

Coyote Ugly

1. Place

The Bar came before the movie. It is an awesome bar where the girls know how to party and make you feel okay about giving up your money, drawers, bras, and dignity.

2. Movie

A story about a Jersey girl following her dreams, aided by working at this bar in New York.

3. Situation/Person/Decision

See other definitions - waking up next to someone so ugly you'd rather chew your arm off than wake them up.
1. Yo, Coyote Ugly is my favorite bar! I got whipped, stripped, drunk, and danced on the bar all before 7 o'clock!

2. Hey did you see Coyote Ugly? It actually has a plot!

3. Ugg I woke up to Coyote Ugly this morning!
Coyote Ugly by jerseycountry March 8, 2009
Word of the Day on September 2, 2026

Literally 1984 

Used in response for when someone promotes/advocates an event or idea that is perceived to support "too much" authority and/or government control.

Often used jokingly as a over-exaggeration in political talk.

Can also be used in response to a ban or mute in a forum site or online chat.
Steve: I think that the government should regulate businesses more
Bob: Literally 1984!

--User1 has been permantly banned--
User2: You cant ban my friend like that! Literally 1984!
Literally 1984 by ke1 July 7, 2021
Word of the Day on September 1, 2026

Back when I lived in upstate new york 

A meaningless, unimpressive, self-serving introduction. An indicator that the story about to be shared will be pointless and dumb.
Back when I lived in upstate new york, I also had to park on the street - on two occasions, we got enough snow, mixed with just the right plowing, that my car was lifted off the ground from so much snow being jammed underneath it.
Word of the Day on August 31, 2026
Acronym, meaning Too Long Didn't Understand
Similar to TLDR
Sister: This meeting was to discuss the rough draft of my essay, where we discussed the subsidiary questions I added in my rough draft. We also discussed the relationship between my main title and the real-life situations I chose to use in my essay. We discussed the structure of my essay as well, specifically the Math AOK section and how it relates to the contradiction of the title. This second meeting was particularly helpful in discussing the implications of my essay claims and how to apply the title across various areas of knowledge. There were many sections of the essay that could have been cut down in wordiness and the ways of knowing required further and more in-depth analysis.

Me: Woah! TLDU!
TLDU by L-Evans January 14, 2019
Word of the Day on August 30, 2026
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