While having sex with a girl in the doggie style position with hands on her hips, one would slide thumb into girl's asshole and at same time say "DING DONG".
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.