A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.
Pick me: If a man cheats on you, it's probably because you your fault. Be feminine! Make him food! Clean his ass hole!

Rational person: Shut up psycho
by 84848cheese December 2, 2020
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1. A person who begs for the attention, acceptance and approval of a certain group in different things they say. In most case, it's to attain the attention, acceptance and approval of the opposite sex.

2. Someone who enjoys & finds empowerment in doing things that make their significant other happy.
by Tymeros May 13, 2016
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the term “pick me” is a term used to refer to people who feed into narratives that are personally oppressive to them in an attempt to gain the approval, attention and/or validation of their oppressor. an example of this is a woman who puts down other women and feeds into misogynistic stereotypes in order to seem more appealing to sexist men in hopes of gaining their approval.
1. Becky always makes sexist jokes, makes fun of and shames rape victims, and shames other women when she’s around groups of men. Every time she’s around a guy- especially when she knows for sure he’s sexist- she will call other women dishwashers & go out of her way to put down the women around them with insults based in misogyny. She’s such a “pick me.
by casscafe April 27, 2021
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The type of person who constantly begs for attention and approval, and has to make EVERYTHING about themselves. Will do anything to get attention and approval, including bringing other people down.
“Alright kids, so we’ll be picking people to kick off this ma-“

“OOH! PICK ME! PICK ME! I’M THE BEST AT DOING THESE KICK-OFFS AND WAY BETTER THAN ALL THESE OTHER PEOPLE WHO DON’T EVEN HAVE 1 BRAINCELL! I’M GONNA BE SO GOOD, EVEN THE BEST IN THE WORLD, YOU HAVE NO IDEA! PLEASE JUST PICK ME!”
by nlolhere August 9, 2021
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Embarrassing herself for attention. Annoying wannabe who will literally go to any lengths for the attention of the boys/men. (pick me, choose me)
"Keira Lynn Bennett is such a pick me. It's annoying. She thinks she's the shit but she's really not."
by Lauren Ross September 19, 2021
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men and women, who say and do stuff, to seek validation from the opposite gender, via putting their own gender down.
Amanda just slut-shamed me in front of the guy I like”.. “ugh she’s such a pick-me
by Katja40 March 19, 2021
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A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me
Pick me: If a man cheats on you, it's probably because you your fault. Be feminine! Make him food! Clean his ass hole!

Slightly rational person: Shut up psycho
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