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to ignore something or someone to act like you dont care but a small part of you do care.
i know she wanted me come over tonite but i decide to pay it.

pay it by raingree September 8, 2006
Urban Dictionary Merch
Pay it no mind, dont let it bother you.
Also can be said "dont even pay it" as in (dont pay it any mind)
"She was real upset how the client was saying nasty shit to her... I said girl, its his problem, dont even pay it."

"My mom was gettin in my face about all that...but y'know , I paid it..."
pay it by angelblood September 14, 2008
When you just settle for what it is and just take one for the team even if it means a financial loss or waste of money.

The fact that you just spent money on something that probably wasn’t worth it .

A bad investment .

Waste of time .
I invested in this new host but she ain’t even doing her job right I’ll just pay it !

I bought this new dress but I don’t really like it after all I’m just going to pay it !
Pay it by SPRA3K February 10, 2026

pay it forward 

This is a reference to the title phrase of the book by Catherine Ryan Hyde.

In the book the phrase is used as the opposite of payback: when someone does a good dead for you, instead of paying them back, pay it forward by doing a good deed for someone else.
19:50 <Canaan> do u want something in return
19:51 <itchy> nah
19:51 <itchy> pay it forward
19:55 <Canaan> haha, will do
pay it forward by J Kennedy August 11, 2006

Pay It Forward 

A phrase used to imply or otherwise act upon the action in which one would perform a deed of good service onto, for, or in the favor of another person or group of persons with the sound intentions that the only thing they do in return is to perform a deed of good service onto, for, or in the favor of another person or group of persons where in which they should maintain the same sound intentions of the individual or group who performed a good deed unto them. This method of kindness is infallible unless met with a person of great greed and/or immaturity.
Johnny helped the homeless man around the corner from his apartment with a fresh meal and a few dollars. Without any strings attached to this gesture of kindness, Johnny simply asked the man to pay it forward.
Pay It Forward by Inveterate September 23, 2009

pay it no mind 

ignore, don't pay attention to it, not important
there's a lot of hate around you, buy you have to pay it no mind
pay it no mind by Jackton July 1, 2017

pay it backward

the opposite of paying it forward. generally a chain reaction of dickhead behavior caused by one gigantic asshole.
person A: yo man some guy stole my t.v. last night
person B: ahh that sucks dude i hate assholes

4 hours later

Person B: yo man why did you drink all my liquor then curb stomp my dog
Person A: whatever man just pay it backward.
pay it backward by dr kush 11 July 19, 2010
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