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"over the pants blow job" invented by the infamous lauren. it is a motion in which the actor, exerts their mouth to the genital region, while the subject is still wearing pants. this could be potentially awkward. consequently, a otphj may be necessary when the mouth grows weary of dense pants, such as jeans, and khakis with zippers.
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otpbj by fjklsafjlskda April 4, 2014
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Over the pants blow job. When a slutty girl is too prude/ hasn't consumed enough drugs and alcohol to give an actual blow job. This originated in Lake park, FL. When a friend of mine was mad because the girl he was trying to hook up with only put her mouth around his penis over his pants and twirled his tounge.
The most I could get out of her was an OTPBJ! Total blue balls!
OTPBJ by Matt dahmer March 10, 2016
Over the pants bean flick! Kinda like stoking the fire! Getting the female all primed up!
I have her all hot and bothered with a nice courtesy OTPBF!
otpbf by Sweatyninjafoot March 27, 2015
Over-The-Pants-Hand-Job. Distant cousin of the dry hump.
I can't have sex because my parents are home. Will you settle for a OTPHJ?
OTPHJ by Kalticious Dawg January 18, 2004
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Over-the-pants-rim-job. Much cleaner than the traditional rim job and definitely tastier.
Kathryn sure gave Eddie a serious OTPRJ
OTPRJ by Otis Allen October 29, 2009
Over The Pants Squeeze Job
Subtle, but pleasant, squeezes on your dick while wearing pants.
Non-violent handjob (handski) with pants on.
Cumming is not necessary.
In some situations, OTPSJs are essential due to convenience and where you are with and who is in the room (if anybody).
I was watching a show with my girlfriend, and we we're snuggling under a blanket, but her mom and little sister were across the room watching the show as well. Therefore, a quality OTPSJ was performed and it made the show that much more enjoyable.
OTPSJ by Goat Sourber November 9, 2010
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