One who beats his own gong
An onanist
Player in a one man band One known to shake hands with the unemployed
Wanker
Tosser One known to spank the monkey
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.