A particular slang used in Chicago which means you’re not associated with something, or you do not like it. It could be a person, place or thing.
Folknem means “I don’t fuck with that,” and the grave in the word means “on my grave.” Essentially you’re saying i don’t fuck with that, on my grave.
Guy 1 - “hey do you ever question your sexuality.”
Guy 2 - “oh hell no fam, folknemgrave! Miss me with that gay shit”
Guy 1 - “would you like to go to Taco Bell?”
Guy 2 - “folknemgrave, you know that gives people diarrhea right?”
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.