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'Fems’ – a gender non-specific term, not unlike the English colloquial term guys, which can be used to describe a group of people.

Derived from: the French word femme meaning woman or the Anglo-French term of the Law, 'feme' also meaning woman. Much like the term 'guy', when used to refer to two or more people, the gender restriction is lifted such that one or more of the people may be male.
“Meeting the fems at the park for an afternoon session filled with ciders and sun”
fems by gtheseahorsey November 30, 2015
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A gorgeous sandwich topped with egg, bacon and lettuce.
Hey, have you tried a fems?
No, why?
Because it's so damn good!
fems by hamnamnam February 28, 2017

no fats no fems

In the LGBTQ+ community, specifically gay men, the term "no fats no fems" refers to only being interested in connecting with other men that are "in shape and masculine". "No fats" means nobody overweight and "no fems" means nobody that has a feminine sounding voice, feminine behaviors or characteristics. This is a discriminatory phrase that is commonly used on dating apps, such as Grindr, when trying to romantically connect with other gay men.
*On Grindr*

Looking to meet new people for a good time - no fats no fems.
no fats no fems by isa14x August 28, 2020

hob nob with the fems 

After we won state we went to hob nob with the fems

crazy fems 

a type of feminists who take everything to the extremes and over exaggerate
crazy fems are the most common type of feminists. they are the ones who you find on the streets yelling at innocent bystanders for attention

normal man: hey ma’am, are you single ?

crazy fem: aRe YoU TrYiNg To AsSAuLt Me ? I WILL CALL THE POLICE !

normal man: no, i was just trying to flirt with you

crazy fem: OH SO JUST BECAUSE IM A WOMAN YOURE GOING TO HIT ON ME ? LEAVE ME ALONE YOU SEXIST MONSTER
crazy fems by the_real_ash1093 January 26, 2018
The combination of the words female and wholesome to become the opposite of Femdom. In which a woman is comforting and friendly rather than mean and domineering but she also maintains a sexual presence.
Friend 1: how have you been mate?
Friend 2: not too good, I've been having a rough day, I think I'll go see a Femsome and try and cheer myself up. She's very comforting you know.
Femsome by Kaiser William III May 21, 2020
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