When a person is being very cool and funny but then takes something too far and nobody likes it. that person is a fagoosh.
You and your friend have just finished playing basketball and you would like to go into there pool because you are all sweaty but your friend says i have to go play world of war craft. in which case you can call that person a fagoosh.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.