The act of taking an ambiguos cutie on a tour of your house during a party and then performing fellatio on him in the unfinished basement. The term can be applied to any sexual activity performed at a party without the guests knowing.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.