Male companion suitable for flirting, joking around and other stimulation but not for a bona fide romantic relationship. So named because one can freely bat him around and even get a little breathless over him, but never depend on him for actual emotional sustenance.
"He's great fun, but he's not bf material -- he's just a cat toy."
When you shove a finger down the pee hole of a male, form a hook and pull both balls out from the inside, letting them dangle from the tip. Pirates Cat Toy.
She was so pissed when she found Todd cheating, she lubed up a finger and gave him a Pirate’s Cat Toy while he was sleeping.
When a female crawls between the legs of her male sex partner and proceeds to lay on her back. While on her back she then continues to play with the male's scrotum in a simlar fashion to a cat playing with a toy.
*Also known as cougar toying when the 'toyer' is older than the 'toy' or as 'cat nipping' when teeth are used
Guy 1: Felicia is so kinky. Last night she was cat toying for like 2 hours straight. It was amazing!
Guy 2: She must get it from her mother. I heard she is like the Queen of Cougar Toying
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.