When someone who is a strong advocate for social justice is utterly and absolutely tired of beating their head against a wall trying to explain to ignorant assholes with what you would think is unequivocal evidence, that racism exists
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.