A term used to describe a person, edger, gooner, solosexual...someone that gets off on pleasuring themselves through masturbation/mutual masturbation and foreplay. Not necessarily circumscribing to penetration as a means of intimacy. Can be done alone or in a group (of other bators).
Can be used to describe male or female/heterosexual and homosexual.
He's not a top, nor a bottom...hes a total 'Bator'!
Shes alone in her room tonight; shes 'Bating'....
Bator is a god of Ontario, he completely owns the place like he bought the world and he has trillions of dollars and gets any fucking toy in the world if he wants
When chronic bators start to goon, and are unable to speak coherently, so rely on grunts, random sounds, and general “babble” loud and expressive and generally used during cam-bate or phone-bone where another gooner joins the bate-babble. Also applicable to group bate or circle jerksfor serious bators.
Dude…I got to a place after huffing where I lost the ability to speak or think and all I could do was beat my meat and do bator-babble with a random gooner on the other end of the phone.