YDMA
You didn't miss anything. Abbreviation to friend, colleague, loved one who expresses FOMO over missing an event. The responding party who attended tells the person that basically she was better off for having been absent. My experience this weekend when I attended a good friend's son's wedding. Bummer of a weekend. My partner stated she wished she had been there. While I missed being with her, I would rather have been where SHE was than at this dud of a wedding.
Whoa- you wanted to come to my cousin and his pregnant second wife's gender-reveal party last Saturday? I only went out of family obligation- I'd rather have been having my toenails pulled out slowly by religious fanatics- YDMA.
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