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Xenogenders 

Xenogender is defined as "a gender that cannot be contained by human understandings of gender; more concerned with crafting other methods of gender categorization and hierarchy such as those relating to animals, plants, or other creatures/things". Xenogender individuals may use ideas and identities outside of the gender binary to describe themselves and avoid binary gendered identifiers, such as using only their first name or the name of an animal. They may feel they cannot place a label on themselves, or feel as though they lack the terms to fully express their gender or identity, something that derives from a lexical gap. The term "xenogender" itself was designed to help fill the lexical gap by using terms not typically associated with gender or describing gender with metaphors. Since it is a gender identity that is outside the binary concepts of masculinity and femininity, xenogender is a non-binary identity.
Person one - "Are you a boy or a girl?"
Person 2 - "Actually I use xenogenders as labels!"
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Xenogenders 

uh I barely understand the concept I mean theres nothing wrong with it but I just barely understand it, I see it alot on tiktok though so uh good for them I guess
Random person: hey I am cat gender meaning I use xenogenders my pronouns are meow/meowself

Me: what
Xenogenders by Layer_cake October 10, 2022

Xenogenderphobic

Also known as Xenophobic (from people who have no idea what Xenophobic actually means) are people who didn't call Dani by too/tooth (those are actual pronouns someone asked me to call them)
also if you are xenogenderphobic you are chad 👍
Person A: I'm Xenogenderphobic
Person B: Same
Dani: What are you guys talking abo-
Person A and Person B: Stfu tooth
Xenogenderphobic by Cassidyxox January 12, 2023

xenogenderphobic

person 1: im xenogenderphobic

person 2: same
xenogenderphobic by yag4ased February 3, 2022

Xenogender 

A Xenogender is a gender that is made for peoples interests/struggles. It is most commonly used by neurodivergentpeople because they have more intense interests than others. Some neurodivergent people have a more complicated relationship with gender so these help with that also!
Josh is autistic and using a xenogender helps them with being comfortable with their gender
Xenogender by m0nster sheep October 14, 2020

xenogender 

a xenogender is a gender identity outside of the binary (also known as neogenders), usually made by a neurodivergent person. some neurodivergent people interpret life and society differently. due to this, they may also interpret social constructs such as gender differently. a neurodivergent person may struggle trying to find a term that fits their gender so they take something of comfort and make a gender identitiy tied to it! hence a xenogender! most xenogenders are based on objects such as mindsets, plants, animals and other things people may find comfort in!
xenogenders are awesome!! it’s so great that people who may have trouble understanding gender are able to find terms that fit them
xenogender by R0SIE!! October 14, 2020

Xenogender 

Xenogender is a term that is used to refer to describe what someone's gender feels like to them. It is a great tool that many use to express their individuality and how they feel they are inside, and was originally intended to help neurodivergent people discuss their gender with others.

People who use xenogenders don't actually identify their gender as the word they've used prefacing "-gender". (ex. cat-gender doesn't mean that person identifies as a cat.)

There is a misconception that using one of these makes someone trans and/or nonbinary. This is untrue. Xenogenders are made for everyone to find what describes them best, and even cisgender people can (and do) use them and new neopronouns to describe their more unique feelings of themselves to others.

However, it is primarily LGBT+ people, particularly nonbinary people, who use them currently. But that doesn't mean that you can assume the gender of someone based on a xenogender identity. (For example, binary trans people use these as well, and using a xenogender doesn't make them a nonbinary person.)
"I heard that person is using a xenogender catgender and cat pronouns now. What, they identify as a cat?"

"Actually, no. Someone who is cat gender isn't identifying as a cat. They aren't trans-species. That person probably feels that cat's gender is small and warm or something like that. I'm sure cat would be willing to explain it to you if you asked cat."
Xenogender by aerokat January 21, 2022
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